FAQs

What kind of people will I be matched with?

Singles who are serious about getting married, not casual dating or situationships. Our members span ages, cultures, ethnicities, political commitments, and levels of practice, but share core traits: commitment to spirituality, good character, and readiness for marriage. Matches are made around values, life goals, and lifestyle, not just a checklist.

We do not judge on ethnicity or mainstream schools of thought. We simply ensure honesty, compatibility, and a safe, barakah-minded space for introductions.

How long will it take to get my first match?

Timelines vary by your criteria, location, and responsiveness. Many people receive an introduction within a few weeks; for niche preferences, it can take longer. You can help by:

  • being clear on true non-negotiables vs. nice-to-haves

  • Making sure your profile is complete

  • replying promptly and being open to a larger geographic region. We don’t promise a specific date by which you’ll receive your first introduction; quality and compatibility come first.

I'm very progressive, do you have anyone who matches my political and/or social beliefs?

Yes. We prioritize values alignment and mutual respect over labels. In your onboarding, you can indicate views on topics like family roles, career, community engagement, and social justice. We’ll introduce you to people whose outlook and practice rhythm fit yours.

We don’t run political litmus tests, but we would not make introductions where someone’s stance would undermine your core values or boundaries.

I consider myself to be traditional, do you have anyone who matches my approach to Islam and/or Sufsm?

Absolutely. We serve a wide spectrum of practice. You can note your madhhab/fiqh orientation, comfort with different approaches, and (optionally) tariqa affiliation or interest in dhikr/mawlid.

We match on practice expectations (prayer, modesty, family involvement, gender interaction, roles in marriage) and can involve a wali/imam if you prefer. We also offer chaperoned or modest communication pathways to honor your standards.

Why do you screen and vet members?

Because marriage is serious, and your time and trust are an amanah (trust). Screening protects our community and raises match quality without gatekeeping. 

We screen for intent and safety through an application, and everyone agrees to our adab code.